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Thursday, April 12, 2012
Intrapersonal Communication
Shoaib Saeed Shobi
2:57 AM
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Agenda
- Introduction to Intrapersonal Communication
- What does Intrapersonal Communication Mean?
- Communication With Self
- What is included in Intrapersonal Communication
- Different level of Communication Activity
- Benefits
- Suggestion
- Conclusion
Introduction to Intrapersonal Communication
In order to successfully communicate with others you must first learn to communicate with yourself. Intrapersonal communication is the most basic level of communication. You must understand who you are & what you think about your self.Intrapersonal communication is the foundation of Interpersonal communication. Therefore, it is necessary to understand how you communicate with yourself before you communicate with others.
What does Intrapersonal Communication mean?
The communication we have with ourselves the self talk that determines how we view the world and how we view ourselves is called Intrapersonal Communication.Intrapersonal is to do with self. The dictionary gives the meaning of Intrapersonal is existing or occurring with in the individual self or mind.
“There are three things extremely hard, steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self.”
Benjamin Franklin
Communication with Self or Self-Talk
Intrapersonal Communication is concerned with communicating with your own self. Day dreaming, thinking, imagining and problem solving fall under its purview.Various feedback mechanisms of a human body such as hunger, pleasure and pain are also included in Intrapersonal communication.
Thinking over the Future
An example of Intrapersonal communication is thinking over the future.
“A man who does not think for himself does not think at all”
Oscar Wilde
What is included in Intrapersonal Communication?
Self Concept
Is the basis for intrapersonal communication, because it determines how a persona sees him and is oriented toward others. Self-concept also called self-awareness involves three factors:1) Beliefs 2) Values 3) Attitudes
It means that your level of knowledge of about yourself & how you feel about your self. Self-concept or self-awareness is not in born. It develops as we grow through our communication with others and from our environment.
- Real self: Your “core” self; who you really are.
- Perceived self: Who you see yourself to be.
- Ideal self: Who you want to be now or in the future?
- Social self: Who you are when you interact with others, individuals or in Social situations.
- Intellectual self: Who you are as a student and a learner; the part of you that acquires and uses knowledge.
- Emotional self: The part of you that processes feelings.
- Physical self: Who you are physically; including the concept of your own body, gracefulness and coordination, level of attractiveness, physical health and well being.
- Artistic self: The part of you that is creative or artistic.
- Self-Disclosure: Providing information to others that they would not learn if we did not tell them and Reciprocity we expect others to share similar information.
Building a Positive Self-Concept
- Can give you confidence you need to communicate effectively
- Must draw from your strengths
- Must know where you need to improve
- Set goals for change
Self-Disclosure
Process of making internal revelations about oneself that others would be unlikely to know otherwise. While self-disclosure is an individual communication tactic, it invites reciprocity.
The Johari Window
Though we think that we know every thing about ourselves but there is more to the self-concept. This is because we maintain separate private and public selves. These have been illustrated by the social scientist Joseph Luft and Harrington. Now in this slide there are 4 sections OPEN, HIDDEN, BLIND and UNKNOWN.
- The open section represents self-knowledge that you are aware of and are willing to share with others.
- The hidden section represents what you are aware of and are not willing to share
- The blind section represents information which you don’t but other knows.
- The unknown section represents what is unknown both to you and to others.
These sections vary according to our relationship with others. In a close relationship the open portion will be consider but when we communicate with a casual relationship then the hidden area will be the largest area in the Johari window. This model can be used effectively to increase our self-awareness.
Different levels of Communication Activity.
Intrapersonal communication may involve different levels of communication activity:
- Internal Discourse
- Solo Vocal Communication
- Solo Written Communication
Internal Discourse
Involves thinking, concentration and analysis. Psychologists include both daydreaming and nocturnal dreaming in this category. Prayer, contemplation and meditation are also a part of this category.Solo Vocal Communication
Includes speaking aloud to oneself. This may be done to clarify Thinking, to rehearse a message intended for others, or simply to let off steam.Solo Written Communication
Deals with writing not intended for others. Example: An entry in a diary or personal journal“If you don’t have time to read, you don’t have the time
(or the tools) to write. Simple as that”
Stephen King
“Writing is the best way to talk without being interrupted”
Jules Renard
“All writing is a process of elimination”
Martha Albrand
Benefits
- You'll Gain more Confidence in Yourself!
- You'll feel at Peace!
- Your Relationships will improve!
- You'll develop a Stronger Faith in a Higher Power!
- You'll Become Mentally and Physically Healthy!
- You'll Gain Financial Abundance!
- You'll Accomplish Your Goals!
- You'll Fulfill Your Purpose!
Suggestion
- Positive Self talk increases focus, concentration and performance.
- If you believe you cannot do something, your brain will tell your body and it will shut down.
- When you stay encouraged and positive, your body will also respond in a positive way.
Conclusion
“The self is not something that one finds. It is something that one creates.”
Thomas Stephen Szasz
or
“If you can create success inside – you can create and enjoy success outside.”
Dr. Shad Helmsletter
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Tando Adam Khan
Shoaib Saeed Shobi
4:33 AM
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Tando Adam (Urdu: ٹنڈو آدم خان) is a town in Sindh, Pakistan.
The foundation of Tando Adam was laid by Raees Adam Khan Marri, and after a while the name was changed to the shorter "Tando Adam".
The town has a number of ancient places including mosques and Hindu temples. One of the oldest temples dates back to the 16th century. Retaining its original design, it is now the Dr. Ziaduddin Government Primary School. Tando Adam Khan is also known for its large number of hafiz-e-Quran. The shrine of the poet, Shah Abdul Latif Bhitai is 16 kilometers away from Tando Adam. The government erected a gate called Lateef Gate in memory of this poet which leads to the shrine.
Tando Adam has produced numerous politicians and scholars including Shah Nawaz Khan Junejo, Rasool Bux Mari, Syed Hassan Jameel, Manzoor Ali Khan, Rasheed Ali Khan, Wazir Ali Khan, Mushtaq Jiskani, Syed Faiz Ali Shah, Abdul Hameed Khoso and many others.
The renowned scholar Khalid Alig established an educational institution named Tadem School which gained remarkable reputation. It is now expanded to New Ali Garh Government College and Sir Syed Government High School. (Post Nationalization)
The only park in Tando Adam named Gulshan-E-Siddiqui was named after the late Dr Tahir Hussain Siddiqui who was martyred while still in office as Mayor of Tando Adam. Dr Siddiqui was in office for ten years and was the first elected mayor of Tando Adam. Dr. Siddiqui is still remembered in Tando Adam for his sincere dedication towards social work and the uplifting of the under-privileged and the destitute of Tando Adam.
Tando Adam falls in Urban Sindh Like other Urban areas of Sindh the majority of people living in Tando Adam are Urdu speaking Muhajir (Pakistan).
Various languages are spoken, including Urdu, Sindhi, Punjabi and Pushto.
The
town has many emerging industries and is considered to be the trade hub
of the district. Tando Adam has the biggest power loom industry in
Pakistan. Besides this, numerous fruit juice, paper products, cotton
ginning and cottage industries also contribute to the national
exchequer.
It also contains many educational institutions. It is famous for its foods, including "sajji" which is exported all over the world.
The major business areas are linked with Muhammad Ali Jinnah Road. Muhammadi Chowk is the transit hub for proceeding to Hyderabad via the national highway.
History:
The foundation of Tando Adam was laid by Raees Adam Khan Marri, and after a while the name was changed to the shorter "Tando Adam".
The town has a number of ancient places including mosques and Hindu temples. One of the oldest temples dates back to the 16th century. Retaining its original design, it is now the Dr. Ziaduddin Government Primary School. Tando Adam Khan is also known for its large number of hafiz-e-Quran. The shrine of the poet, Shah Abdul Latif Bhitai is 16 kilometers away from Tando Adam. The government erected a gate called Lateef Gate in memory of this poet which leads to the shrine.
Tando Adam has produced numerous politicians and scholars including Shah Nawaz Khan Junejo, Rasool Bux Mari, Syed Hassan Jameel, Manzoor Ali Khan, Rasheed Ali Khan, Wazir Ali Khan, Mushtaq Jiskani, Syed Faiz Ali Shah, Abdul Hameed Khoso and many others.
The renowned scholar Khalid Alig established an educational institution named Tadem School which gained remarkable reputation. It is now expanded to New Ali Garh Government College and Sir Syed Government High School. (Post Nationalization)
The only park in Tando Adam named Gulshan-E-Siddiqui was named after the late Dr Tahir Hussain Siddiqui who was martyred while still in office as Mayor of Tando Adam. Dr Siddiqui was in office for ten years and was the first elected mayor of Tando Adam. Dr. Siddiqui is still remembered in Tando Adam for his sincere dedication towards social work and the uplifting of the under-privileged and the destitute of Tando Adam.
Tando Adam falls in Urban Sindh Like other Urban areas of Sindh the majority of people living in Tando Adam are Urdu speaking Muhajir (Pakistan).
Various languages are spoken, including Urdu, Sindhi, Punjabi and Pushto.
Economic activity:
The
town has many emerging industries and is considered to be the trade hub
of the district. Tando Adam has the biggest power loom industry in
Pakistan. Besides this, numerous fruit juice, paper products, cotton
ginning and cottage industries also contribute to the national
exchequer.It also contains many educational institutions. It is famous for its foods, including "sajji" which is exported all over the world.
The major business areas are linked with Muhammad Ali Jinnah Road. Muhammadi Chowk is the transit hub for proceeding to Hyderabad via the national highway.
Friends VS Family
On weekends, I usually go to somewhere for a picnic with my friends. I usually prefer to go with my friends rather than my family. That’s because with my friends, I can move around and enjoy myself without any restrictions. Don’t take me wrong. It doesn’t mean that I don’t like my family. In fact I love my family very much. What I am trying to say is that with family, you have to restrict yourself to a limited area. You have to obey different “orders” from your elders. You have to take care younger ones and you can’t go far away from them. In that way, you can’t really enjoy your picnic if you are a reserved or a bit "shy" kind of person like me.
On the other hand, you can enjoy much more with friends in a picnic. That's all my personal preference and you may differ from it.
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